Overcoming Resentment: The Power of Saying No

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  1. Simon's avatar Simon says:

    No is powerful and I feel the struggle you have had for using it. It’s interesting how Satre’s quote has had many a philospher pondering over it’s meaning.
    One point of view is he was focusing on the judegment other give you.

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    1. Hi, Simon. What helped me (and still does) deal with this struggle was to accept the fear, shame, and guilt that often follow. Once I stopped denying or fighting these feelings, they gradually dissolve. Now, saying no feels more natural to me.
      And can you tell me more about the meaning of Sartre’s quote? 🤓

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      1. Simon's avatar Simon says:

        Yes I see how it can get easier.

        MAny have debated Satre’s quote and what it really means. The version I like is that the hell he speaks of from people was their opinion and their judgement.

        Regardless, people are often a problem we could do without.

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      2. In essence, we have the same interpretation of the quote.

        I used it to illustrate how we tend to think that others are the problem when we overestimate their importance in our lives.

        Thank you for your insight.

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      3. Simon's avatar Simon says:

        Thank you for your post 🙂

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  2. Kudos on your progress Aline. I would like to do better at listening to my body and saying no when appropriate.

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    1. Thanks! And this body awareness can be built. That’s what I’m doing through meditation and mindfulness. 🫠

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